Cempaka Culture and Tourism: Women ask the tough questions at support forum

"The Recalibration of Awareness – Apr 20/21, 2012 (Kryon channeled by Lee Carroll) (Subjects: Old Energy, Recalibration Lectures, God / Creator, Religions/Spiritual systems (Catholic Church, Priests/Nun’s, Worship, John Paul Pope, Women in the Church otherwise church will go, Current Pope won’t do it), Middle East, Jews, Governments will change (Internet, Media, Democracies, Dictators, North Korea, Nations voted at once), Integrity (Businesses, Tobacco Companies, Bankers/ Financial Institutes, Pharmaceutical company to collapse), Illuminati (Started in Greece, with Shipping, Financial markets, Stock markets, Pharmaceutical money (fund to build Africa, to develop)), Shift of Human Consciousness, (Old) Souls, Women, Masters to/already come back, Global Unity.... etc.) - (Text version)

“… The Shift in Human Nature

You're starting to see integrity change. Awareness recalibrates integrity, and the Human Being who would sit there and take advantage of another Human Being in an old energy would never do it in a new energy. The reason? It will become intuitive, so this is a shift in Human Nature as well, for in the past you have assumed that people take advantage of people first and integrity comes later. That's just ordinary Human nature.

In the past, Human nature expressed within governments worked like this: If you were stronger than the other one, you simply conquered them. If you were strong, it was an invitation to conquer. If you were weak, it was an invitation to be conquered. No one even thought about it. It was the way of things. The bigger you could have your armies, the better they would do when you sent them out to conquer. That's not how you think today. Did you notice?

Any country that thinks this way today will not survive, for humanity has discovered that the world goes far better by putting things together instead of tearing them apart. The new energy puts the weak and strong together in ways that make sense and that have integrity. Take a look at what happened to some of the businesses in this great land (USA). Up to 30 years ago, when you started realizing some of them didn't have integrity, you eliminated them. What happened to the tobacco companies when you realized they were knowingly addicting your children? Today, they still sell their products to less-aware countries, but that will also change.

What did you do a few years ago when you realized that your bankers were actually selling you homes that they knew you couldn't pay for later? They were walking away, smiling greedily, not thinking about the heartbreak that was to follow when a life's dream would be lost. Dear American, you are in a recession. However, this is like when you prune a tree and cut back the branches. When the tree grows back, you've got control and the branches will grow bigger and stronger than they were before, without the greed factor. Then, if you don't like the way it grows back, you'll prune it again! I tell you this because awareness is now in control of big money. It's right before your eyes, what you're doing. But fear often rules. …”

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Women ask the tough questions at support forum

Ati Nurbaiti, The Jakarta Post, Jakarta

So many hands shot up in the air across the ballroom. So many questions on the basics of life and existence, and too little time.

"How do I get a divorce if my husband left me without documents?"

"Is it true that a birth certificate states if the child is illegitimate?"

"Why does the man get two thirds of the inheritance and the woman only one-third?"

"There are so many among us returning from Saudi Arabia without having been paid, where can we get help from?"

Some 2,000 women from eight provinces have gathered in Jakarta since Monday for the second national forum of women heads of household (Pekka).

They are widows, divorcees, single mothers, wives of missing or permanently ill husbands.

The women represent almost 400 groups from Greater Jakarta, West and Central Java, Aceh, North Maluku, East and West Nusa Tenggara and West Kalimantan.

On Tuesday the panelists on the second day of the gathering, held once every three years, were only able to answer a few of the questions.

Regarding inheritance, Azriana from the National Commission on Violence Against Women said Islam encourages consultation.

The principle that men get two-thirds of the inheritance refers back to Arab culture in the time of the Prophet Muhammad, she said, when the men carried the sole responsibility to support the household.

"In our case the women often work much more than the men," she said.

Outside the forum venue at the Grand Cempaka Hotel in Central Jakarta was a bazaar with handicrafts and snacks made by the women's groups.

Pekka was set up in 2001 with the assistance of the National Women's Rights Commission.

Its mission is to help "women who are out of sight and silent amidst discrimination and violence", according to commission head Kamala Chandrakirana, in her introduction to the book Dunia tanpa suami (A world without husbands).

Throughout the country, there are estimated to be more than six million women heads of household. Pekka currently only has 8,273 members.

Pekka is led by Nani Zulminarni, who says she has been asked how a widow like her can lead a national organization.

Among the delegates at the forum in Jakarta are 60 women from East Nusa Tenggara, one of Indonesia's poorest provinces.

Bema Soge Buli, a participant from Larantuka in the province, said she joined Pekka following the death of her husband, who passed away at the age of 43.

She said he left her with five children.

Pekka members cite the advantage of being able to take loans from the organization for their small businesses.

Bema said her Pekka group has accumulated some Rp 2 billion, from which members can borrow a few million rupiah at low interest.

She said some men in her area were getting jealous.

Quoting the sub-district head, she said with a smile, "You're widows, but you're rich widows."